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“The reputation of a department follows all of its graduate students, sometimes in ways that are very unfair,” explains Fehr.This, in turn, puts an inordinate amount of pressure on those veritable heroes who somehow manage the feat of sleeping with their students.Because not only are these relationships almost always an unacceptable abuse of power, they also affect the dynamics of departments, entire fields, and the very act of academic mentorship altogether.
I’m not happy about them, and occasionally somewhat bitter.
Correspondingly, advisees of famous student-seducers—male or female, straight or LGBT, platonically relationshipped or otherwise—can easily be tainted for their entire careers.
“If a woman co-authors with a more senior man (and notice the heterosexism that we always assume heterosexual relationships),” explains Rachel Mc Kinnon, an assistant professor at the College of Charleston, “some people either explicitly or implicitly suspect that they’re in a romantic relationship, and that the senior scholar only offered to help her publish for romantic interests.
But I also know moping about them won’t change anything. For anyone that isn’t clear on this, grad school isn’t particularly friendly to dating.
(At least in science/engineering/mathematics grad school, which is the assumption I have for the entire post.) There are so many reasons for this that it’s hard to know where to begin.